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Thursday, October 23, 2014

Sayreville



Football is an old American past-time. In some states or towns it is so popular that it's all you care about. Football was a way to hang out with friends, play a game, laugh, work hard, and win. Bringing people together with one common interest. It was male bonding at its finest. But, currently it has become more of a problem than a solution.

Hazing has become more of a serious crime compared to what it was 20 or 30 years ago. The techniques, social media, and the embarrassment factor have all escalated exponentially. The times are different, society is different, and bullying is frowned upon now more than ever.

This is why when football players in Sayreville, New Jersey were hazing the freshman team, it was a serious offense. There have been some questions on the fact that hazing at this school has been going on for years, but like I said, the times have changed. The fact that reports of hazing have not been known to the public until now is not surprising. But, these varsity members went above and beyond their call of duty and started to sexually assault some of the freshman. Some may say this was the breaking point. One of the victims was quoted saying, "it made me want to shoot myself". No one should feel that way. Especially by teammates who are supposed to be your mentors and friends.

Football has changed through time. What was once a simple and pure game has turned into a cragged and disturbing sport. One filled with manipulation and intimidation. This is why old coaches should not be using their old ways. A smart and fun coach back then is now considered ignorant and easy to fool. Coach George Najjar, aged 62, was in charge of the team in Sayreville, NJ. He would leave the team in the locker rooms alone, giving them space,  but all he was really doing was giving them opportunities. Opportunities to hurt the younger players.

What these recreant teenagers did was unforgivable and now they will pay for their crime. Three of the offenders were initially held in juvenile detention, and four others with less serious crimes were released.

If only these problems were assessed when they first occurred who knows how long ago; maybe these victims would not have had to endure all this pain and humiliation.

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